Instead of giving long lectures:
Use short sentences, less than 10 words.
Instead of using vague statements: ‘I don’t like it,’ or ‘Don’t do that’
Use specific statements: ‘Stop kicking the chair’
Instead of asking negative questions: ‘Didn’t I tell you not to?’ or “Why are you doing that again?’
Use specific statements: ‘Stop kicking the chair.’
Instead of using put down statements: ‘I wish you were not born’ or ‘You are a burden to me.’
Use positive statements: ‘I am not in a good mood. Give me 10 minutes to cool down.’
Instead of using sarcasm: ‘I am impressed’ or ‘You did this?’
Use specific words: ‘I am sorry I thought you were not able to do this.’
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